I think it’s pretty amazing how the older you get, the more your birthday becomes about the people around you instead of about yourself. You want to be with the people you love…to celebrate, to remember, to dream about the days ahead and just know that you have a home with someone… I just wanted to write a thank you note today, on my birthday, to honor some of the people around me, right now, who make my life what it is…and who make my birthday truly happy today.
I’m pretty sure I made fun of Hillary Clinton when she said, “it takes a village to raise a child”…but on the flipside… I look around and it’s absolutely true in my case, for my children. What makes me ok with that is that I know that God Himself placed me in this village around me and around my family. He ordained my steps, and those around me to intersect at just the right time so that I could enjoy true friendships and also so that I could fulfill my calling in the Church. He gives much grace to me in order to accomplish what He’s called me to do. Part of that grace comes simply through this village of people that He put me in…
There is a constant sense of the gap that lies between my abilities and my calling. There’s only so much I can do…I’m limited. With 3 kids, life has to be intentional to accomplish what I feel I’m called to do. There’s also a certain sense of release that I have to have at all times, knowing if God has purposed it, He will do it. I’m convinced that part of how God accomplishes His purpose in me is through the people who step in at just the right time and move into that gap…
So, today I humbly celebrate the people who stand in the gap for me…
Nathan, thank you for loving me and for always telling me that I can enjoy what I do…for constantly releasing me to walk in my gifting and letting me be me. You are an incredible Dad…anything I can do, you can pretty much do better – except maybe cooking. Thank you, you fill in the gap.
Mom & Dad, for your prayers, the Kingdom kind, that are a constant wind in my sail and for countless times you’ve flown and driven to us – hours upon hours- to be with our children so that we can do what we do. It’s an amazing ministry to me. Thank you, you fill in the gap.
Eric & Kristin, you are my brother and sister-in-law, but most of all, you are my dear friends and I really, really need that. What a joy to have you near us…it’s better than I dreamed. I’m so excited that my kids get to see you and know you. Nobody cheers me on better than you both do…thank you…you fill in the gap.
To “Aunt Molley”, you are the sister that I always wanted. I’m so grateful that my children know you and that you are a huge part of their lives. Thank you for your humor, for truly getting me..and for being that person that I never feel I have to be “on” with… You’re like a comfy sweater. Thank you…you fill in the gap.
I think of Anna Brink who tutors and loves on our children so they can school at home…thank you Anna for every bit of your passion for teaching our kids and for loving them the way you do…down to the last tiny detail. Thank you…you fill in the gap.
Thank you Deeann for countless times you’ve stepped in to hold down the fort…even through tornado drills…and for helping to finish major school projects in the past and managing “Brave” the dog with humor. Thank you…you fill in the gap.
Miss Mo Mo, you’re not forgotten either and your countless hours of loving on the kids…thank you..you filled in the gap. Recently, Miss Kristine for stepping in to fill in for Anna and being an absolute cheerleader to Noah & Ellie. Thank you…you filled in the gap.
I think of Shannon Scott, always reassuring me that I’m ok to head to the main stage for soundcheck…that the kids will be more than fine…they will be loved on, poured into and cherished in Bloom and Passion Kids. Thank you for scooping up Annie Rose when she cries for me, handing her a cup of goldfish and saying, “Let’s go hear Mommy sing”. That means the world to me…releasing me all the more to lead. Thank you…you fill in the gap.
Janet Reeves…I’m happy today that you wake up with Passion Kids on your heart because 2 of my kids are in there every Sunday and they need to hear what God puts in that heart of yours. You’re amazing. Thank you…you fill in the gap, dear.
John Pritchard – for your thoughtfulness & kindness. Do not grow weary in doing good… You are irreplaceable. You fill in the gap. Thank you.
Legacy Academy of Alpharetta, GA – Thank you…you fill in the gap.
Jennifer Bossart – for play dates and pick ups for Annie Rose and for being my friend even after you’ve seen me at my worst. You fill in the gap. Thank you.
Louie & Shelley, thank you for reminding me that I’m released to lead and for believing that over me even before I did. Thank you for the culture that you have kept at PCC – the ultimate “village”. You fill in the gap. Thank you.
PCC Door Holders – you fill in the gap. Mike M. – thank you for putting up with all my questions. Leighton, thank you for just helping me and encouraging me cheerfully, always… sixstepsrecords…you fill in the gap. Thank you.
I’m grateful for the Tomlin Band & Crew…you set me up to win. As much as you tease me, you encourage me… You fill in the gap. Chris & Lauren, every time I see you, I walk away encouraged because you have taken the time to speak something into my life. You fill in the gap.
To Lindsay W, Wendy S, Lauren C., Donna S, Whitney P, Joy G, Julie C…my dear friends, even from afar….you fill in the gap. Thank you.
God– you hem me in, behind and before. You put Your very own dreams in me. You loved me before anyone did. You made me… You are perfect. You made all these people because You love them and you love me… You allow them to fill in the gaps of my life because it just brings You joy when they do…and lots of glory. Thank you. You are enough for me. You obviously can fill every gap in my life from now until eternity…so even more, it makes me thank You that You still love to use people – just ordinary people – to accomplish Your purposes in extraordinary ways… I love you with all of my heart, mind, soul and strength.
This is a happy birthday.
Love,
Christy Nockels
























